May you be a charitable soul who has self-respect by renouncing any trace of bossiness.
Children who have self-respect are bestowers who give everyone respect. A bestower means one who is merciful. He would not have even the slightest thought of bossiness towards any soul. "Why is this like this?” "You should not have done this. It should not be like this. Does knowledge say this?” All of these are traces of bossiness in a subtle form. However, charitable souls who have self-respect will uplift those who have fallen and will make them co-operative. They can never think that that one is suffering the consequences of his own karma, or that anyone who does something will definitely receive the result of it and should fall. You children cannot have such thoughts.
The specialities of contentment and happiness enable you to experience the flying stage.